I used to wear my weekends like a badge of honour, battling against a culture that glorifies the grind. You know the type: wake up at 5 AM, crush the day, and sprint into the next. I thought that if I wasn’t hustling every hour of the weekend, I was failing—like somehow I was unworthy of success unless I was constantly pushing the boundaries of my time.
But last year, I hit a wall. And not the kind of wall that can be smashed through with a little more grit. This was an emotional brick wall, perhaps the kind only shiny Instagram-worthy success can hide for so long. I realized something profound: the more I worked, the less I produced. Sounds backward, right? But that’s the thing about our brilliant brains—we need space to breathe, to create, and, ironically, to work smarter, not harder.
It all started with a conversation I had with a mentor who epitomized the “work smarter” mantra. He shared a story about early mornings at the office filled with caffeine and frantic emails before the sun even graced the skyline. He had spent years in this insane cycle, grinding away, only to discover that his highest-earning moments came from—and hear’s the kicker—time off. Not time at a desk,not time in sleepless nights; it was time spent with his family,wandering in nature,or indulging in a new hobby.
That hit me like a freight train. I began to question everything I’d accepted as the truth about work and productivity. What if I could reclaim my weekends as a sacred space for development, creativity, and actually enjoying life? Mind you, this wasn’t some fluffy self-help fantasy. This was about recalibrating my mindset and un-learning the myths we’ve been fed about what it means to “make it” as an entrepreneur.
So, I took a leap. No working on weekends. I swapped late-night brainstorms for Friday night game nights with my friends. Saturday mornings became yoga classes rather of “catching up” on emails. I found solace in the slow moments, engaging with my passions—photography, writing, living under the sun.
And here’s where things got real: I didn’t just survive. I thrived. by creating these boundaries, I unleashed a wave of creativity that positively infiltrated my weekdays. Fresh ideas bubbled up,intense clarity sparked during moments of stillness,and my capacity for strategic thinking expanded. I realized that the time I had been “losing” was actually an investment into my mental bandwidth.
I also learned a painful truth: the hustle culture is a trap. It glorifies busy over productive, creating a hamster wheel of exhaustion rather of fostering growth and innovation. I saw countless colleagues and friends burning out, chasing a dream that was slowly turning into a nightmare, all while rescheduling personal lives for the sake of contracts. It’s neat to have weekend plans canceled after working late on Friday; it’s sad to be too drained to even remember why you started.
By consciously stepping back, I not only made more money—I regained my love for what I do. This isn’t to say it’s an easy shift. It’s uncomfortable, especially when everyone around you is sprinting. Confront doubts, hear the skeptical voices, but lean into that discomfort.In today’s world, rest can be revolutionary. Using weekends for rejuvenation fuels growth that working 80-hour weeks can’t catalyze.
I can hear skeptics now: “But I can’t take weekends off, I have bills to pay!” Look, I’ve been there. I remember nights filled with anxiety about cash flow. But the truth is, if you’re caught in a cycle of endless work without recharging, you might be putting yourself in a downward spiral that ends up costing you more in the long run due to burnout, lowered productivity, and half-baked ideas.
Here’s the radical truth: time off equals riches in outlook. By reclaiming my weekends, I establish a framework that prioritizes rest as a tool for success, not just a luxury for the prosperous. The irony? My income soared beyond what I’d imagined. I poured that newly invigorated energy into my business. I experimented, I networked, I took risks—but with a clear head and an open heart.
So to all the hustlers out there, wondering if it’s worth it to step back: give yourself that permission. Your brain will thank you. Your bank account will, too. The real game-changer lies within you—when you move from the mindset of relentless hustle to one that honors the value of pause, you’ll find yourself flourishing in ways you’ve never anticipated.